A Dog’s Sixth Sense – a spooky experience

My Grandma told me folk tales that aroused my curiosity. Tales that were so mystical and interesting that they opened up a whole world of the un-understood realm – enticing me to enter and wonder and figure out what was going on.

She told me numerous things – like how turmeric is good for killing infections of the throat – I’d be made to have spoonfulls of awful tasting turmeric powder to cure sore throat – yet when an allopathic doc was asked about this remedy he looked down upon us like illiterate ignoramuses. Yet today science HAS caught up with my grandma and her folklore. An article on BBC news extolls the virtues of turmeric in cancer cure – here.

There are many things she spoke of – and another one is about the sixth sense of dogs.

I grew up in a neighbourhood where home doors were never shut and no one needed an invitation to drop in to anyone’s home. Kids roamed freely and older kids watched out for younger ones and families assumed responsibility not just for their own kids but also for those of others. And a group of stray dogs were a part of this extended family. Every year we had a few litters from Reggie the beautiful rust colored dog with a limp and kajal-lined black doe eyes. She gave the kids many many pups to play with. There was a semi-formal arrangement in which we all fed the group of dogs and there was a ‘dotted-line’ master-pet relationship between pairs of us.

And so we always had dogs playing with us and obeying our commands and whining when we went off to school.

This whining caused by separation anxiety was very different from the one we sometimes heard from the whole group of dogs.

And for that type of whining my grandma’s explanations was this:

In Hindu mythology there is a God of death called “Yama Deva”.  He or his messengers come visiting to pluck out the ones whose time is up.

It is said that dogs can “see” or sense the presence of Yama Deva when he is in the vicinity.

I had heard these tales as a child and these had been lost in the recesses of memory – until 3.5 month old pup began behaving strangely one day.

The pup – who was usually playful and hungry and sleepy all the time, was suddenly clingy and whiny. His physical condition seemd normal but his behavior was unusual. All day long he stayed around my feet. Even as I carried him and lulled him like an infant, his mood did not change. 

I took him to the playground to cheer him up – an outing he enjoys – but he remained distracted and whiny, impatient, edgy and jittery. No one in the family could reassure him or do anything to silence his intermittent soft whines and soulful looks. He didn’t eat normally and almost kept a vigil. We could do nothing but watch. We did not understand. It was not overly melodramatic but if you were close to the pup you would sense the change in his behavior.

When we sat on the bench in the playground my grandma’s words came to me – and I thought that I might be dying today – but I swept that thought aside as a ridiculous one and forgot about it.

Until the next day.

We heard some Hindu religious music playing in the next highrise building but did not pay attention. There are many types of Hindu communities where I live and I assumed that this music would be related to some festival of some sub-community.

But later that afternoon we realised that this was related to a funeral.  On the same floor of the next building someone had passed away the previous day.

It was only after I attended the funeral that I began connecting the dots.

Were these events a coincidence? Or was my grandma right? Had Yama just spared me and taken another instead?

I was spooked – not by the idea of death itself – but by the possibility that the dog knew – and by the idea that my grandma knew that the dog knew ……..

jm

May 2012

Street Dwellers in Bombay

Everyone has heard about the much romanticised and much media-exploited slums of Bombay. There are even organised tours through the slums!

Most outsiders think that slum life is the rock bottom of all the layers of living. But the slum layer is two layers away from the real bottom.

The  layer lower than slums is that of street dwellers – people who have homes on the streets. No houses – just homes. They are not the same as the homeless of the West. The Bombay street dwellers have homes and have flourishing families.

These are actual households with pots and pans and cooking and washing. These are families consisting of grandparents & parents and children of various ages living together. They even have pets that live with them and sleep with them. All happening in the open. Without a roof over their head.

I noticed the first family just around the corner of my apartment, living on the foot path along the highway. Their spot stretches for about 20 meters of the public road on which all their belongings are parked. No one really uses that stretch of the road so they are not really in the way. And besides, even if they were in the way, the Bombayite always ‘adjusts’ and ‘accomodates’ everyone else – so that no one is inconvenienced by an obstacle. Every time I see them, a faint desire arises to go out and chat with them. This family has 3 dogs – strays who have been adopted by the the family.

This week in my daily trips to Nanavati hospital, I have noticed another such family on the footpath on in a different suburb. Again – with dogs as pets. Today I watched the woman of the house, sitting near the cooking fire and pulling her two pet dogs close to her to feed them with love.

These people are among the poorest I know. They really do live hand to mouth.There is no ‘unemployment cheque’ coming to them and they have no government who will listen to them. They live, finding food from one day to the next. They have no shelter in the monsoons and they have no toilets all year round. They have no water supply and street lights are their only power supply.

The rich drive past that drive past, these poor are rendered invisible by the rolled up window glasses of the chauffeur driven cars. The middle class feel bad for them and even though they know that there is little they can do to change the lives of these people, they give do their bit of charity by giving them food or old clothes or just a few rupees occasionally.

The Street dwellers  live in the open. In full view of the world. I wonder about the compromises they must be having to make with the municipal authorities and the local police – just to keep their home in a given spot. I wonder how they protect their little toddlers as they learn to walk. And I wonder how they protect their young girls from the predators. Their life is not easy.

Yet, they find enough love in their hearts to share their resources with stray dogs. As permanent full time members of their homes. As though the chaos in their day to day life is not enough! As they they don’t already have enough mouths to feed!

Who are these amazing people who have still not allowed their very tough lives to toughen their hearts?

Someday I will reach out and find out. Someday soon I will take pictures and post them here.

jm

March 2011

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